Journey Towards Justice Series – Part I: Burden of Justice
Cultural Commentary / Social Justice

Journey Towards Justice Series – Part I: Burden of Justice

Have you ever been burdened by something? I mean really burdened. Burdened to the point that you feel a heaviness inside that can’t truly lift. A fear so deep it keeps you paralyzed from action. Have you ever seen something so atrocious, or heard a story so dark, that it left you with a sour taste for hours afterward? The injustice … Continue reading »

What Emotions Are Forbidden to Christians?
Book Review / Cultural Commentary / Relationships and Love / Thrive80

What Emotions Are Forbidden to Christians?

Hello All, This week, Thrive80 (an imprint of Moody Publishers that challenges the millennial generation) is hosting a blog series about Christians and Forbidden Emotions. What emotions seem forbidden to most Christians? This is to help promote their newly published book The Anxious Christian, by Rhett Smith. I was privileged to write two posts on … Continue reading »

Unclean: The Shame of Brokenness
Identity Renewed Post / Lies We Believe / Memories of Labels / Unhealthy Coping Mechanisms

Unclean: The Shame of Brokenness

We live in a polished world of successful, driven people. We are conquerors, climbing the corporate ladders, slaying the dragons that confront us. We are bold, strong, good-looking. We can strut our stuff and preen with the best. But underneath…depression rages. Suicide and divorce rates go up. Addiction, eating disorders, and self-hatred all seem to … Continue reading »

Heartbroken: Identity in Messed Up Relationships
Identity Renewed Post / Memories of Labels / Relationships and Love

Heartbroken: Identity in Messed Up Relationships

And they lived happily ever after.  If you were like me, your childhood was filled with stories that ended with this happy refrain. Whether you watched lots of Disney movies or read fairy tales, and epitome of happiness seemed to be…in a relationship. In falling in love with that special guy or girl, depending on … Continue reading »

Perfect: The Damage of Perfectionism on our Identity
Church Issues / Identity Renewed Post / Lies We Believe / Unhealthy Coping Mechanisms

Perfect: The Damage of Perfectionism on our Identity

  I don’t know why many Christians feel the need to pretend to be perfect. Maybe it’s because our culture is obsessed with appearance and performance. Look at magazines: the women always look gorgeous and confident, the men always look capable and strong. Worth is found solely in how you look or what you accomplish. … Continue reading »